Brace yourself, and make sure you're sitting down. Sitting now? Is there someone nearby who could call 911 if they had to? Good. There's no real way to make this news less jarring so I'll just go right ahead and tell you straight up what the news is and you'll have to absorb the news as best you're able to in your own way. Again, I apologize for shock. Please understand my intent is to inform not to alter your worldviews.....
Participating on a reality tv show is not a particularly good way to find Lasting and True Love.
There you have it.
I think everyone will understand if this thread doesn't draw a lot of responses, as I suspect most people will either respond with denial or spiral downwards into an emotional morass.