Here is a recent e-mail from a recently married buddy of mine sent regarding going out for beer. Is this guy whipped, am I in the dark regarding married life or what. Help me understand. Ladies I need you to way in also.
Buddy e-mails to PBD:
something to consider... do we want to join the ladies (XXXX and some of my friends from work are already getting together, and they asked us if we want to join them) or do we want to do 'the guy thing'? i'm in for whatever, where ever.
Mrs. PBD asked the same thing last night. I said I thought it was a guy thing.
I guess we can allow the ladies. Let me know so I can invite her is that is what we want to do
Buddy Responds to PBD:
ladies are ALWAYS invited. we're married, so they're kind of a package deal (i mean that in a good way!).
I agree but disagree, there should always be time away from the wife that gives both them and us an opportuntiy for alone/personal time which everyone needs
That is why guys generally watch football, go hunting, join bowling leagues, joint the Lions and other "guys only" social organizations and other thing with guys only. This is so husbands can be guys, kids, slobs, etc. and bond with other guys with out offending and worrying about their wives.
So I'm assuming were inviting the ladies?
edited: added SOME NOTES
Observation Buddy states "do we want to join the ladies"
Question: Why cant they join us?
I should note, Mrs PBD was cool with the "Guy Only" Thing. Her response was go ahead you haven't been out with them in a while, I think I'll take a bath and read my book.