Hell ya we want to talk about it if we are losing!! Just make sure to give her compliments and tell her how great she looks! (Of course then, us silly women would wonder if we really looked *that* bad before! You can't win for losing!)Thanks! Oh yes, she gives me mucho compliments everyday! She has lost weight, too, so that's great, but I won't talk about it, ya know how ladies are about their weight. She looks great!