I just had thr worst date of my life. I guess I should be happy that it was the worst so i can look forward. He hept looking out the window. I was like "Hey! I'm over HERE!"
I just had thr worst date of my life. I guess I should be happy that it was the worst so i can look forward. He hept looking out the window. I was like "Hey! I'm over HERE!"
Ugh! Sorry to hear about it. I don't know how you do it. I always chalk up bad dates to "all guys suck"; I would think it'd be tough for you to blame it on that.
Hopefully you at least got a good story out of it.
At least you're putting yourself out there. I spent the weekend with the girls -- no potential dates in sight...
How do I know you are who you think you are?
"He defended the cause of the poor and needy, and so all went well. Is that not what it means to know me?" Jeremiah 22:16
Yeah, Veloise for your date! It sounds like you had a lot of fun, and hopefully you guys can go out again.
For what it's worth, if I had to rely on a date being standard, a guy (or girl) asks, you go alone, just the two of you, etc. etc. I would probably say I've only been on a handful of dates. It's just not the way it has happened.... usually it has involved a group setting where friends are trying to play matchmaker. Which I am so much more comfortable with than doing a one on one thing. I'd so much rather talk to someone first and know there is a connection before doing the whole "date" thing. The thought of a "date" makes my belly hurt. The thought of a single guy being out with a group of us knowing that my friends are trying to set me up, still makes my belly hurt, but a lot less than the other
cch, as the others said, unless you know for sure you're ready to get back in, right now it's best just to focus on you and the girls. Don't do anything until you are ready, and that might be awhile. Too many times people jump right back into it and that inevitably won't work out. I can't really talk to the whole meeting people thing, and have that same question actually. Since my divorce (2 years ago), the people I have dated were all through friends of a friends and all but the last one was long distance. I'm not from here originally, and this is a very small town, most everyone knows everyone else and there aren't too many options.
chet sorry your date (didn't) suck! As someone else said, chalk it up to a learning lesson - what it is you want from someone, and what it is you yourself want to make sure you don't do on a date!
Donk glad the dumping was mutual. Sometimes its better to just acknowledge that it didnt work on, and be able to move on, than to try and work on something that just isn't there.
SAW
Will that be the last we hear from/about RJ tonight ?![]()
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Last edited by Maister; 27 Jan 2009 at 2:24 PM. Reason: off topic tags
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I was originally thrown by Shadkhen, for I am a little more familiar with Yenta. The correct use of Yenta, however, is a chatty woman (chatty almost to excess, in fact), where Shadkhen is, of course, the professional. ![]()
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