I am in a carpool with anywhere between 2 and 5 people depending on the day and the how many meetings each of us have. 4 of the 5 riders are pretty fit and many people would probably consider us skinny, the 5th person is over weight. Here is the situation. I have been in this car pool for 8.5 weeks and the heavy person has never offered to sit in the front seat when all 5 riders show up, as a result we are pretty cozy in the back.
Have any of you been in this situation?
Is there any tactful way to say “Hey ______ why don’t you sit in the front today!”
If you car pool feel free to share your strange, uncomfortable or other situations.