what is your agency's limits on accepting gifts. I've been invited watch an Orioles' game from a skybox. I wanna go, but legally I don't think I can.
what is your agency's limits on accepting gifts. I've been invited watch an Orioles' game from a skybox. I wanna go, but legally I don't think I can.
Damn! That's it!?!? At my last job, the situation was really dicey. My mentor/friend works for a company that my agency did a a lot of business with. However, I knew that she would never put me in a predicament. I made up my mind that I'm not going. If I were in St. Louis, and someone offered me skybox Cardinals' seats, I would have a really hard decision to make.
Bring on the pens...but I'll pass on the Skybox tix.Department employees may not solicit or accept gifts from firms, individuals, or organizations who are doing, have done, or have an interest in doing business with THE TOWN NEXT DOOR. However, unsolicited gifts which have little or no value (e.g., pens, calendars, etc.) need not be returned to the sender.
"A day without sunshine is like, you know, night." --Steve Martin
you could offer to pay for some fair share?
At jobs I've had, all gifts had to be gifts for the entire office, like a meat and cheese tray, or something. If it was a gift only you could use, you could not accept it. I once got a christmas card from a development firm, after working with them through several subdivisions plats. In the card was a postcard where I was to put a check next to the gift I wanted, and then mail it back. The gifts were for different concerts, sporting events, fancy restaurants, or rounds of golf at a private club. Would have been great if I could have actually accepted one of them.
Man up and take the tickets. You only live once.
You get all squeezed up inside/Like the days were carved in stone/You get all wired up inside/And it's bad to be alone
You can go out, you can take a ride/And when you get out on your own/You get all smoothed out inside/And it's good to be alone
-Peart
When I'm offered a gift the first thing I ask myself is: who's going to know, how are they going to find out, and who's going to care.![]()
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Habitual Offender
In my short tenure here, I've been offered tickets to Badgers games, both football and basketball. I probably could have taken them with out too much repercussion, but my ethics professor was close to my ear....don't even HINT at impropriety. So I said "thanks, but no". I even spread the christmas love too. A beautiful box of Cashews? Here you go staff! Enjoy the salty goodness!
I just checked my employee manual...$2.99 maximum gift. Good thing I don't live on those 'tips'.
I think we can accept a meal up to a certain low limit, and that's it, other than the pen/pencil kind of stuff.
But I will admit that a few years ago, a co-worker got a pair of great Magic tickets from a contractor, offered them to me, and I took them.![]()
I think the APA and AICP will be providing a training session near you! It will be an all day event from 8AM to 5PM, but you will only get 1.7655544332988 credits towards your continuing education credit, after a 2 hour lunch is taken out, eight breaks of 35 minutes each and only after verification of the 1 in 12 speakers who is actually AICP being authorized to provide the training and verification of the payment of the fee for approval of the seminar credits to the APA office in......
Pheew.....
You get the picture
Anyone know if being a Sarchastic Wise Arse is a punishable offence with AICP???
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Some of the best advice that I have been given was
Would they give this to you or treat you to this if you did not work where you do or hold the employment position that you do? If you answer truthfuly and the answer is no than do not accept it.
Sea Bishop is right, imagine your name in the paper that you accepted a ticket to a seat in the sky box,
Also you have crossed the line when the person giving you the gift may think that you will act more favorably to them, regardless if you will or not
Why sacrifice yourself for a "gift" regardless of the price,
It is the principal, there is no difference between a cup of coffee and a ticket to the world series,
Regardless of what the employer guidelines are, and regardless of what every one else is doing, you have to set your own standards
not even a cup of coffee.... in the public sector.
We have to report all gifts given to us to a central officer who tells us what we can do with them- box of chocies? Spread them round the office- bottles of wine, perfume etc etc get give out as lucky door prizes at the christmas party.
"Have you ever wondered if there was more to life, other than being really, really, ridiculously good looking?" Zoolander
Our firm does have goodies to give out - all do. I usually send something to a client after a project is completed as a way to say thank you - a travel mug, a portfolio or a golf shirt depending on the size of the project. We do have other items such as sporting tickets, rounds of golf and such, but they are targting to existing clients with contracts.For example, if we are working for a private company and having to go through reviews at a city, we do not offer the city employee a goodie. That's bad ethics and karma.
Fat Cat said "Would they give this to you or treat you to this if you did not work where you do or hold the employment position that you do? If you answer truthfuly and the answer is no than do not accept it." Alot of time its a result of your employment position because that where we met you and built the working relationship. Ultimately you have to make the decision that you can live with (and defend it you have to). The media can turn a cup of coffee into a 5 star restaurant dinner if they had the desire to attack.
"Whatever beer I'm drinking, is better than the one I'm not." DMLW
"Budweiser sells a product they reflectively insist on calling beer." John Oliver
Does this mean I need to return the Cadillac Escalade that appeared in my driveway and the key in my mailbox?
Forget it, I'll just drop AICP instead, the Escalade is more fun anyways.![]()
Because our department handles alot of stuff, we sometimes get offers for meals and such. I turn them down always... I generally do not go to lunch with vendors, applicants or such just because of the preception, which is often sold as the reality.
In addition to that and maybe it is a small town thing; but discounts is what gets me. I walk into a place and go to pay and "its hey Big Owl. How's things going in the City of Owlville? Let me give you a discount." not exactly but you get the drift. I refuse and pay regular price. There are some places i avoid because of that, then i get some degree of grief because i frequent the places in the Town Next Door or the Town One Over. You can't win. It sucks being a planner with ethics.![]()
Although i did take a drink coupon from Planit but i still don't grasp the fact that he is Private Sector and it's been two years or so.
No personal gifts.
Food (donuts, candy & fruit baskets) where they left out in the open in the breakroom to be shared with the entire office.
So I shouldn't have accepted (and used) the pocket protector a major western engineering company sent me?![]()
I got two, should the whole planning office trade days of usage?![]()
I can see that, but what if it is from a Council member. We had one get a call while he was checking on things in our office that his baseball tickets could not be used. As a matter of convenience he offered to leave his four tickets here for anyone to use as he couldn't make the game that night either. What do you all think? I mean the intent was to offer the tickets to the closest person when he got the call and he had no development applications with us at the time. (But is a developer in town). Like I said, where does this lie?
You get all squeezed up inside/Like the days were carved in stone/You get all wired up inside/And it's bad to be alone
You can go out, you can take a ride/And when you get out on your own/You get all smoothed out inside/And it's good to be alone
-Peart
The way this particular Council member relayed the story to me was that he got jumped in the back alley, behind the City building and all they took was his baseball tickets. Odd, Zach! Who could have possibly known that this particular peson had baseball tickets with them? Hmmm!?!?
You get all squeezed up inside/Like the days were carved in stone/You get all wired up inside/And it's bad to be alone
You can go out, you can take a ride/And when you get out on your own/You get all smoothed out inside/And it's good to be alone
-Peart