Hey all, I've been lurking a lot and posting a bit here on Cyburbia for a while, and now I come to you seeking non-planning-related advice!
I'm a university student, and right now I live with 4 friends.
Unfortunately, we've all had stupid drama this year and we have become divided. Myself and 2 others would like to continue living together next year (without the others), but the problem is that one of my 2 friends will be doing a co-op year and she doesn't know what city she'll be placed in yet. If she's not in our city, then obv she won't be living with us.
So, it comes down to just me and 1 friend. But I don't want to live with *just* her. We've had some issues between us in the past that are water under the bridge now, but it showed me some more about her personality. I had a bad gut feeling about living with her from the beginning...basically, all house drama centers around her, and I just happen to be on her good side. I know how she can get, and she still annoys me a little bit sometimes...basically, I feel like living with just her would be walking into a trap.
But she's all for it! She doesn't know that I'm a "forgive but not forget" person, and that I'm wary about this. She'd love for us to get a 2-bedroom apartment or something, and she wants to start looking for a place for next year right now.
How can I let her know that I'd rather have a 3rd person join us (the more the better) without being hurtful?