I cringe whenever I hear my wife utter the phrase “we need to talk”.
I get it you want help making some sort of difficult decision, but why insist on further input/discussion after I’ve already provided my two cents (which typically takes two minutes or less). Have I considered other angles? Yes. I can take various factors into consideration and still render a decision rather quickly; and neither the passage of time, nor more gum flapping tends to alter my views.