Well like usual, I don't have the solid source of a "friend", but NPR tells me national parks were all closed in the last shutdown. So I'm going to go ahead and believe NPR over your "friend".
http://www.npr.org/blogs/itsallpolit...ment-shutdowns
National parks, if you don't know, include most outdoor memorials.
Anyways, there are tons of liability and operational concerns that you consistently ignore in your desire to blame democrats for the fact that the GOP is refusing to fund the government. That's really the incredible thing. You acknowledge that having the government shutdown hurts the average joe, and even though its the republicans who have shut down the government until they get "something that they don't even know what it is" you blame the democrats for not giving up their signature legislation of the last 10 years.
As to why I listen to talk radio, its because I'm curious. Its what feeds the talking points both in the rightwing media and among right wing politicians. It also helps to be able to know what people like you will say, before you say it. So that generally I will have already researched something to know whther it is true or not by the time the talking point gets repeated to me by people such as yourself. It's nice to be prepared for the misinformation that gets spit at me by people like yourself (unfortunately I deal with alot of these people on a regular basis).
Edit to add: I guess alot of this frustration comes from the fact that so many people who share this view of yours just don't understand how government works, and aren't terribly interesting in informing themselves, but it does not stop them from saying ridiculous things and blaming others for things they clearly don't understand. I hear it on lett wing talk also, but at the moment the ignorance and outright misinformation is pretty one sided. We generally also don't have a left wing version of mskis here to take issue with. I get a bit offended at you personally just because as a planner you should understand how government works but it seems that you don't really understand these things at all.