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Poll results: High School Oral Sex Club : Shocking?

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Thread: More Shocking Than The Scout Thread?

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    Cyburbian Emeritus Chet's avatar
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    More Shocking Than The Scout Thread?

    A High School Oral Sex Club? I don't recall that was one of my choices...

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    No more shocking then the "points" gangs of the early 90's.
    Too lazy to beat myself up for being to lazy to beat myself up for being too lazy to... well you get the point....

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    I'm sure my high school drill team is jumping for joy that they made this a "real" club-
    When Jesus said "love your enemies", he probably didn't mean kill them.

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    I was a card carrying member of the O.S.C. when I was in grade school. Weren't you? You must not have been one of the cool kids then

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    Is this something you would list on a college/job application...

    and if so, and you were an employer, would you dare hire them...
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    Originally posted by Runner
    Is this something you would list on a college/job application...

    and if so, and you were an employer, would you dare hire them...
    I was required in the Clinton White House, wasn't it?

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    Who's the teacher advisor for this foul club of debauchery and sin?!

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    Originally posted by Beaner
    [B]debauchery B]
    God I love that word...

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    Re: More Shocking Than The Scout Thread?

    Originally posted by bturk
    A High School Oral Sex Club? I don't recall that was one of my choices...
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    Re: More Shocking Than The Scout Thread?

    [QUOTE]Originally posted by bturk
    A High School Oral Sex Club? I don't recall that was one of my choices...

    [QUOTE]

    Well, it looks like little Johnny and little Susie have been going to too many Britney Spears concerts, courtesy of their brain-dead parents funnelling $50/week allowances and letting them do whatever the Hell they want.

    I also submit that the environment of urban sprawl - which I'm sure most of these kids grow up in - contributes to earlier sexual activity. More out of boredom and lack of healthy, enlightening, social activities than anything else. If you had to live in some of these neighborhoods, perhaps you would be tempted into doing the same. (But not to let the kids off the hook either, there is nothing worse than whiney little rich kids)

    Yeah, while daddy's at the golf course with all his CEO buddies, and mommy's ringing up four figures at the craft show/nail salon, it's certainly not difficult to envision mass fornication occuring inside the jive-plastic bunker houses all across suburbia.

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    Hey Cat, not to disagree with your dislike of typical monfunctional sprawl. . .

    And, you have a point about absentee parenting

    BUT. . . Do you think these kids would be that much "moral" or occupied if they were living in a big city? Especially an American big city like San Francisco. Only the goody two shoe kids and nerds (like I was) engage in "socially beneficial activities).

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    Re: Re: More Shocking Than The Scout Thread?

    [QUOTE]Originally posted by Super Amputee Cat
    [QUOTE]Originally posted by bturk
    A High School Oral Sex Club? I don't recall that was one of my choices...


    Well, it looks like little Johnny and little Susie have been going to too many Britney Spears concerts, courtesy of their brain-dead parents funnelling $50/week allowances and letting them do whatever the Hell they want.

    I also submit that the environment of urban sprawl - which I'm sure most of these kids grow up in - contributes to earlier sexual activity. More out of boredom and lack of healthy, enlightening, social activities than anything else. If you had to live in some of these neighborhoods, perhaps you would be tempted into doing the same. (But not to let the kids off the hook either, there is nothing worse than whiney little rich kids)

    Yeah, while daddy's at the golf course with all his CEO buddies, and mommy's ringing up four figures at the craft show/nail salon, it's certainly not difficult to envision mass fornication occuring inside the jive-plastic bunker houses all across suburbia.
    ROTFLMAO - Talk about stereotyping. Dude, you crack me up.

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    Originally posted by BKM
    Hey Cat, not to disagree with your dislike of typical monfunctional sprawl. . .

    And, you have a point about absentee parenting

    BUT. . . Do you think these kids would be that much "moral" or occupied if they were living in a big city? Especially an American big city like San Francisco. Only the goody two shoe kids and nerds (like I was) engage in "socially beneficial activities).
    No, I don't think that inner city kids are necessarily more "moral" than those in the suburbs. In fact, I still believe that inner city children generally are more prone to earlier sexual activity that their suburban counterparts.

    I do however think that the automobile-centered suburban environment and its policies of exclusionary zoning and glorification of the monoculture contribute to kids' boredom and delinquency. (It's just that they're so rich that they get away with it). And this has worsened as the suburbs become ever-more isolated, gated, restrictive, etc. All this can lead to early sexual activity among teens simply out of pursuing some twisted form of "suburban conformity" as opposed to inner city kids doing it out of hopelessness and desperation.

    I think if we had well planned communities, where mixed activities were within walking distance, then teenage sexual activity would not necessarily disappear but be abated somewhat. That and getting sex education out of the public schools!

    Of course there are other factors that contribute to this behavior. Actually I blame media such as MTV, WB and E! for the glorification of the most irresponsible and abhorrent sexual activity. And in that regard, no amount of good planning will help whatsoeveer as long as the TV's on.

    However, it's the brain-dead parents that share most of the blame. Their enabling methods of giving their kids $50/week allowance, buying them high-priced clothing with fashion labels, buying pop CDs, and contributing to the consumer culture by making their kids "little consumers" certainly plays a significant role in their kids' disillusionment and inevitable sexual "rite of passage". That, and turning a deaf ear when the early warning signs of sexual activity are becoming evident. ("Oh, not my little Susie!")



    You may have a point about only "goody two-shoes" being involved in enlightening social activities. But that's another issue entirely. For as long as our sexually-obsessed culture glorifies the jock/cheerleader stereotype then it's not going to go away anytime soon. It's up to us as parents to steer our kids away from that mindset.

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    Originally posted by Super Amputee Cat
    For as long as our sexually-obsessed culture glorifies the jock/cheerleader stereotype then it's not going to go away anytime soon. It's up to us as parents to steer our kids away from that mindset.
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    I have to say, when I lived in my "New Urbanist" city in Spain in highschool, the majority of my Spanish friends were still "chaste" as seniors in highschool. I cannot even imagine how they would be able to manage any monkey business - afterschool hours were spent studying their asses off for school, which was extrememly academically challanging and for Selectividad, the test that would determine what they would be allowed to study in college. And even if they weren't spending so much time studying, You never spent social time in your or friends' residences - it was all out at cafes, bars or the park, all within easy walks of your apartment building.

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    Originally posted by Super Amputee Cat


    I do however think that the automobile-centered suburban environment and its policies of exclusionary zoning and glorification of the monoculture contribute to kids' boredom and delinquency. (It's just that they're so rich that they get away with it). And this has worsened as the suburbs become ever-more isolated, gated, restrictive, etc. All this can lead to early sexual activity among teens simply out of pursuing some twisted form of "suburban conformity" as opposed to inner city kids doing it out of hopelessness and desperation.

    I think if we had well planned communities, where mixed activities were within walking distance, then teenage sexual activity would not necessarily disappear but be abated somewhat. That and getting sex education out of the public schools!


    Do you write the questions for the AICP test?? The world does not revolve around planning, sprawl and automobile dependence.

    This stuff went on when you were a kid, and it went on before you. It is just more obvious now because of the internet. I

    'll tell you what, I grew up in the city, had everything I ever wanted within walking distance of my house, playgrounds, ball fields, schools, stores, etc. Guess what? I still know girls who were pregnant in high school, had abortions by the time they were 15, 14 year-old fathers, kids F***ing in the bathrooms in elementary school, etc. It happens. In the suburbs, in the cities, on the farm, and in the ghetto. It has nothing to do with cars, sprawl, gated communities, zoning?, money, etc.

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    Way to go Cat!

    Hmmmmm, maybe in reviewing the college/job application one should pay special attention to the home address of the applicant... Be wary of the product of CSD...

    Just a thought...
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    Ya know i tend to agree with Mike, i know i went to high school in BFE redneck ville and sex was THE thing to do-hell usualy on church grounds *you had to be at church every time the doors were open*

    I was 18 the first time i did it and that was SHOCKINGLY old for my peer group. we had a girl on my block preg for the 3rd time at 15 *no she was a cheerleader so her parents got her abortions (morons)*

    i think the sex has always been there from the way my folks talked about when they were in high school but you just lied about it to folks.

    i think kids are more open about what they do now than before and there is a sick culture of "pride" to be preg at 15. some how your a "real" woman

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    Originally posted by PlannerGirl
    i think kids are more open about what they do now than before and there is a sick culture of "pride" to be preg at 15. some how your a "real" woman
    Speaking of "pride". The stupid idiots at our local school district even facilitate this attitude. When a kid gets pregnant they move them to something they call the "Pride Center" which is prominently located on the high school grounds. Shouldn't it be called the "Shame Center"?
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    Originally posted by PlannerGirl
    Ya know i tend to agree with Mike, i know i went to high school in BFE redneck ville and sex was THE thing to do-hell usualy on church grounds *you had to be at church every time the doors were open*
    Dad was a preacher man, so I did it in the baptismal... I learned about the poor correlation between water and, erm, stuff, at an early age.

    Yeah, I'm probably going to hell if one exisits, but I assure you it won't be for THAT little stunt!
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    I think it has more to do with parenting than sprawl.. I lived in the suburbs, and grew up in a single Mom household (who is a planner, so we even had to learn about sprawl) but she ruled us with an iron fist. Granted, I wasn't chaste, but I knew my Mom was going to kick my a$$ and there wasn't going to be any college for me if I got prego.. it should be the "shame" center.
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    What I want to know is if members of the Oral Sex Clubs have to pay dues. If so, are the dues waived if one swallows?

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    Originally posted by Mike DeVuono
    I grew up in the city, had everything I ever wanted within walking distance of my house, playgrounds, ball fields, schools, stores, etc. Guess what? I still know girls who were pregnant in high school, had abortions by the time they were 15, 14 year-old fathers, kids F***ing in the bathrooms in elementary school, etc.
    Where did you grow up, Orland Park, Illinois? Oh wait, nothing there is within walking distance.

    If you would have read my posts carefully you would have understood that I argued that suburban sprawl was just one of the factors contributing to increased teenage sexual activity - not its greatest contributor. For those I still blame brain-dead parents and the morally bankrupt entertainment medium. I do stand by my assertion that suburban sprawl is unhealthy for older children and, coupled with constant exposure to all kinds of sexual innuendo (or blatant pornography) in advertising, movies, television, etc, is resulting in teenage fornication (such as oral sex) at rates never before seen.

    I also submit that proliferation of upper middle-class dual income households in search of all the consumer excesses (such as bigger house, bigger SUV, bigger vacation home, and bigger heated driveway) have certainly played a role in the moral and intellectual degeneration of children today. These are the types of parents that are pushing an agenda of keeping the schools open till 6:00 so they don't have to pay for day care and feel guilty about the sinful amounts of money they make and spend on themselves. They are so blinded by greed, so saturated and bombarded with a consumerist lifestyle, that they fail to see their kids crying for help until its too late. All this just to keep up with the Joneses.

    (And before I get flamed by some of you who may be part of a dual income household with kids, let me say that I have no problem with couples that are trying to raise kids and find it necessary to hold down two jobs to make ends meet. No, what I have in mind are the quintessential yuppie parents who want state funded day care through our education system so they can go out and buy matching Lincoln Navigators. Those are the ones that have blood on their hands when they realize they have f-ed up kids)

    It happens. In the suburbs, in the cities, on the farm, and in the ghetto. It has nothing to do with cars, sprawl, gated communities, zoning?, money, etc. [/B]
    I agree that it happens everywhere, but some of these demographics are more prone to conformity than others. And if you think it has nothing to do with cars guess again. This has been true ever since cars were first mass-produced back in the 1910s (although at a blessedly much smaller scale than seen today). Why in the heck to you think they called it a "rumble seat", BTW?
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    (digs out his old high school yearbook)

    Jeez ... seems like things were a lot more fast and loose way back in the good 'ol days ...
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    Originally posted by Dan
    (digs out his old high school yearbook)

    Jeez ... seems like things were a lot more fast and loose way back in the good 'ol days ...
    No, that's the wrong picture. You accidentally posted the ORGY CLUB photo.

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