I'm a little conflicted with being pals with co-workers. I guess, mainly, I don't want my professional life tied up in my personal life. I try to keep profesional relationships to a minimum, I may go out to lunch every so often with co-workers and I've gone to one happy hour, and a few house warming parties, but I always distance myself.
Lately there has been one co-worker who seems to know, or want to know, too much about my life. Negative comments have been made about my wedding and my house. This co-worker came into work today to let me know they really like me house and when I asked how they'd seen it they replied, "I drove by your subdivision, toured the models, and even think we saw your house". :-c WHAT?!? Who does that? Our home is buried in a subdivision, I'm very tight lipped around this person because of the negative comments made to other co-workers about me, so why on earth would they seek out my house? I hope not to find any boiled bunnies.
So, on that note, what is the easiest way to nicely distance myself even more from my co-workers so they get it out of their head they'd be invited to our wedding or home. (Granted, there are some I wouldn't mind, but in an office setting feelings could get hurt.)
Lately there has been one co-worker who seems to know, or want to know, too much about my life. Negative comments have been made about my wedding and my house. This co-worker came into work today to let me know they really like me house and when I asked how they'd seen it they replied, "I drove by your subdivision, toured the models, and even think we saw your house". :-c WHAT?!? Who does that? Our home is buried in a subdivision, I'm very tight lipped around this person because of the negative comments made to other co-workers about me, so why on earth would they seek out my house? I hope not to find any boiled bunnies.
So, on that note, what is the easiest way to nicely distance myself even more from my co-workers so they get it out of their head they'd be invited to our wedding or home. (Granted, there are some I wouldn't mind, but in an office setting feelings could get hurt.)