Planderella said:
There is no way on this earth that I would use my current employer as a reference. Unless they tell you to find another job, it's professional suicide to let them know you're actively seeking. I would prefer to use either a co-worker or a client who's familiar with my work.
I agree, but only to a point.
If I'm just "looking around" just to see what's out there, no big deal. But if I get to the point where I intend to leave, I believe it's prudent to let an employer know... especially if you're taking time off for an interview. You gain quite a bit of respect if you sit down with your boss (or, sometimes, their boss!) and explain that you are looking and why.
In Donks case, it sounds like it would be best to go over his supervisors head, and speak to the bigger boss. I'd probably couch it in this manner, "I just wanted to let you know up front that I'm sending out some inquiries about future employment." It's going to lead to some difficult questions, but it's easy to prepare for them... "Well, sir, I believe the senior planner and I disagree on a number of issues, and some basic philosophy as it relates to planning. It does cause some friction, but more, I want to be able to utilize my talents to their fullest extent."
Then, toss them the ball. Here are two beauties:
- "Of course, I intend to continue to perform here at the highest level, but should I find other employment, how much notice will you need? I know filling a position can sometimes be difficult, but I hope to make your transition as easy as possible..."
- "I do believe that I have always given my best efforts here, and hope I can count on a solid reference... Would you be willing to write a letter of recommendation for me to attach to my resume?"
Anyway... Since I graduated, I've never just put in notice. I always let the bosses know I was looking. Aside from losing one year end bonus (long story), it has always worked very well for me. Most employers understand "moving on", and appreciate the advanced notice.
In answer to H's post:
Not in my opinion. If you are hunting, as opposed to exploring an opportunity, you
are as good as gone. If you see a job you really want, and it's just that one you want... say so! "Listen boss, this is a huge opportunity... It isn't that I want to leave here, but I have to do what I believe is best for myself and family. Should I not be selected for this job, I don't intend to go anywhere."
I've had several bosses give me advice on city's they knew, or people I might work for... and it was invaluable.
By the way, anyone see the job in Florence, OR? Sheesh... Talk about tailor made for me! They couldn't have fit me to that job description any better unless they'd mentioned me by name!