Yah, that is pretty crappy.
But on the other hand, if I was her family or friend, and the tape showed her being struck by lightening, I really don't think I could watch it. If it's of her playing in the soccer game, than that's different. I just couldn't watch a loved one being killed. It's bad enough that it happened in front of everyone, but to have to see it again? I couldn't do it.
Most wedding announcements up here are published a couple months after the wedding. I wouldn't want it published that I would be gone for one-two weeks in the Caribbean after my wedding.