jordanb
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At least you're not this guy: http://www.fypl.info/
jordanb said:At least you're not this guy: http://www.fypl.info/
Michele Zone said:I suspect he would be a tough sell via online dating services. That would involve too much chit-chat and interacting.
You are just shopping in the wrong department, me thinks. You are a respectable guy with a brain. I do not hear "short" or "fat". Never Married means you bring no ex-wife and "step kids" along with you. Thirty eight or 40 is not that old for a guy to get married for the first time. You can marry someone a bit younger than you and still have a family, no biggie. No typos and nothing crude and no form letters means you are too intelligent and well-mannered for most of these women. And I would not recommend "online dating services".Dan said:I'm a tough sell for online Internet dating. 12 letters out this weekend -- no form letters, nothing crude, no typos -- and only one reply. Not much demand for a 38 year (old), 5' 10" (short), 170 pound (fat), never married (unwanted) guy who only pulls in a few shy of $50K (poor).
Dan said:I'm a tough sell for online Internet dating. 12 letters out this weekend -- no form letters, nothing crude, no typos -- and only one reply. Not much demand for a 38 year (old), 5' 10" (short), 170 pound (fat), never married (unwanted) guy who only pulls in a few shy of $50K (poor).
Hey, girls ... whatcha' think of Dan?
Dan said:Hey, girls ... whatcha' think of Dan?
Dan said:I'm a tough sell for online Internet dating. 12 letters out this weekend -- no form letters, nothing crude, no typos -- and only one reply. Not much demand for a 38 year (old), 5' 10" (short), 170 pound (fat), never married (unwanted) guy who only pulls in a few shy of $50K (poor).
Wanigas? said:This does beg the converse question: How selective is Dan? I mean, I'm sure you pass over some of your females repsondents, as it does work both ways. Or is it so bad that you would take a 5' 1" blonde, 189 lbs, missing teeth, and one teen-age child?
Dan said:Not that bad, but not that picky, either. Physically speaking, I'm most attracted to women that don't seem larger than me; really, a US size 10 or smaller.
Dan said:a US size 10 or smaller.
Seabishop said:Women are just as shallow as men in dating if not more so.
jordanb said:....but because most girls are whores, they'll nail anything the cat drug in as long as he's got enough bling bling....It's obviously because they're whores.....he's got the cash to do a straight up gifts-for-sex transaction now, and that's what they want.
Wanigas? said:Or is the extra thickness too much of a turn-off?
el Guapo said:Humm....I can't believe you seem have trouble keeping a relationship with a woman going. Your attitude towards women is so healthy.[/img]
el Guapo said:Humm....I can't believe you seem have trouble keeping a relationship with a woman going. Your attitude towards women is so healthy.
jordanb said:At least you're not this guy: http://www.fypl.info/
jordanb said:I'm nearly always the one to lose interest, typically because she manages to ask me what I "do" in the first five minutes. .
JNL said:"So what do you do?".
If you are referring to the whole "shopping for REAL women" fiasco, I am genuinely sorry you still feel burned over that. I felt burned too and I really don't want to rehash any of it. However, I think where you got into "trouble" was asking me to give my opinion PUBLICLY, instead of privately, like I offered, while I was suffering insomnia and drug withdrawal and ALSO feeling attacked from all sides.donk said:I won't even go into my preferred body and personality types. last time I did I got into trouble.
jordanb said:It's obviously because they're whores. That kid might not have any future prospects, but he's got the cash to do a straight up gifts-for-sex transaction now, and that's what they want.
Michele Zone said:In a society where insurance companies pay for Viagra (because a 60 year old man whose dick has ceased to stand at attention on its own is ENTITLED to enjoy all the sex he wants) but those same insurance companies often will NOT pay for birth control pills for women (because a young and still fertile woman is a WHORE and should PAY, both literally and figuratively, for the crime of enjoying her own body -- and never mind that if she is on the pill it is because some man is also enjoying her body, no kitten killing or lesbians involved, thanks) is it any wonder women get a tad calloused and quit doing it out of the goodness of their hearts and start asking "What's in it for ME?"
Michele Zone said:If you are referring to the whole "shopping for REAL women" fiasco, I am genuinely sorry you still feel burned over that. I felt burned too and I really don't want to rehash any of it. However, I think where you got into "trouble" was asking me to give my opinion PUBLICLY, instead of privately, like I offered, while I was suffering insomnia and drug withdrawal and ALSO feeling attacked from all sides.
Can we put this to rest? I am not keen on "holding grudges" or some such. I did all that nearly dying. It divested me of a lot of baggage. I have no desire to add to my baggage now that I have learned to Travel Light (or with a light heart, at least). And I have no desire to add to yours.
Peace.
I don't think it is as simple as that. I think it is a "symptom" of larger issues. It is indicative of a particular mindset.Dan said:[ot]
A double standard, I know. One, however, I'd feel more sympathetic about if there was even just one "Run for Testicular Cancer", "10K for Prostate Cancer", let alone a "Pattern Baldness Walk."
Sorry for the recent mysogony. It's not becoming of me, but it's the way I've felt lately. Treating men like crap because your cheap HMO doesn't pay for birth control doesn't really seem to make sense, though[/ot]
Well I have also been kind of careful about my comments about "what I want in a man" for the same reason. I just thought that noting "what happened to me last time" was ... baggage, not "been there, done that, got the T-shirt and now I am older and wiser". lol. I also think you are placing too much of the "blame" on yourself. There is plenty to go around for that particular incident. I could see it all while it went down, how it all interacted, but seeing it doesn't necessarily mean you can stop it, try though you might.donk said:I also try not to hold grudges, I try to learn from my mistakes/misspeaks.
I was trying to point out that attributes that people find attractive are different and can sometimes lead to problems when expressed to others that you don't know that well.
Michele Zone said:...a doctor told me once that they did all that brain research solely on men and the first time they hooked a woman up to see her brain in action, they freaked out and thought something must be terribly wrong because it didn't fit any pattern they knew...
Downtown said:Any girl who drops a guy because he's "too nice" is out of her mind, insecure and not worth your time.
jordanb said:It's obviously because they're whores. That kid might not have any future prospects, but he's got the cash to do a straight up gifts-for-sex transaction now, and that's what they want.
jordanb said:At least you're not this guy: http://www.fypl.info/
When the children reach 18 years of age, I would like for each of them to have 2 children with a mate selected by me.
The statements made on this page should give a good sense of my plan. I think it a good plan and one worth striving to realize.
Rumpy Tunanator said:WTF, LMFAO, I just looked at this and couldn't stop laughing