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I don't know. You are putting a lot of faith in the judgement of a guy who marries a 17 year old girl, gets her pregnant, and then calls her names when the mother in law has recently assaulted her own kids.
Personally I haven't spoken to my MIL for two years - I don't like to interrupt.